It is quite creepy. My husband and I were looking for a community about porn addiction for some tips, and /r/pornfree is probably a healthier and more rational alternative. Unless I had a serious mastubation addiction I wouldn't even consider the idea
In response to OP, I've had mostly negative experiences even just speaking to guys who are gamers. They tend to never shut up about it and embarrass themselves constantly. Also yelling while playing. My sister's boyfriend is like that and it hurts to watch. I can see how you'd get this idea, but I can't paint "dudes who game" as all bad. I met my husband on an MMO afterall. Our hobby is gaming and we both play several hours a day, but we don't obsess over it 24/7 or even really talk about it. We play our own games side by side or play games together. Our fun money goes towards games, consoles, collectibles, TVs, computers, etc. It has never been a sore point for us.
Before we married, we both agreed that we would be willing to give up videogames for better things when given the opportunity. Gaming is "easy" for us as a young couple getting on our feet. To be honest we'd rather have a farm and raise chickens or train horses or some shit. We're saving up to buy property in a more rural area and I won't she'd a single tear when I don't have time to play games anymore.