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No. 54209[Reply]

Maybe it's just me, but I feel as though birth control is something that women don't talk enough about despite it being so complex and many people using it regularly. Let's post our comments/questions about birth control!

- contraception
- acne control
- PCOS management
- hormonal treatment
- ring vs. pill vs. non-hormonal
- side effects/benefits
- weight gain/loss
- etc.
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No. 68961

It can take a long time for your body to go back to normal, but you should talk to your gyno anyways.

No. 68964

I have PCOS. Are there any alternatives to keeping it under control besides taking BC? Does taking BC for long periods of time cause any negative side effects over time? I've been taking BC for like, 6 years now consistently. (I know there's such a thing as google but still)

I need to get a new gyno, I think mine kinda sucks and is flippant about things. Thanks in advance if any anons choose to answer these questions.

No. 68965

Losing weight helps.

No. 69383

I've had my copper IUD for almost a year now and have spotting also.
My understanding is that it's pretty normal but it's also one of the side effects that's less likely to get better.
That said, I've noticed for the past couple of months the spotting has gotten slightly lighter and there's less time bleeding overall.
Talk to your doctor if you're at all worried, and try to avoid googling too deep. Too many anti-IUD groups who exaggerate wildly.

No. 69464

Is there anything I can do to reduce spotting? I feel pretty unsexy when it happens, so it puts a damper on things.

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No. 51836[Reply]

Vagina general. Talk about your vaginas, ask questions, period and other reproductive system stuff is OK too. So is masturbation talk
I'll start
My clit is really fucking small. like the average clit is supposed to be pea sized and mine is maybe a quarter of that size and it makes masturbation frustrating and fruitless (yes even with toys)
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No. 69379

I have a fibroid the size of a baseball and have been taking a pill to supposedly shrink it for the last three months. I really don't think it's helped as the pain is worse than ever (I can hardly move without pain). Gynos are overbooked here, and getting an appointment is like a special occasion. I'm stressing out. I have a hysterectomy with my gyno in about a month, and I'm scared he won't send me for an ultrasound prior to the surgery. Is that normal? I'm in my mid 20s. I guess I need to relax, but I'm also scared he may use a morcellator during the surgery which is a problem. The health system is so broken, especially when you need it the most.

No. 69380


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No. 69399

Anon you're replying to. Turns out I had Epstein Barr, not HSV

No. 69460

Am I the only who gets EXTREMELY paranoid about having any disease, to the point where I wanted to kill myself because that's the only way to truly avoid getting any.
I'm paranoid guys, I don't know what to do, I wanna die, I don't want any diseases, I'm scared

No. 69463

Go to an ob/gyn and talk to them about this. They can help you avoid catching things without going crazy.

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No. 69322[Reply]

Just a thread to freely brag about anything just because why not. No consequences here, this thread is purely just for fun. Can be anything like possessions, body, things that happened to you, or just something you're proud about and want to boast.

I guess I'll start. Today I studied last minute for an exam but managed to ace it!
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No. 69450

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I feel bad for bragging but I suppose that's the point
>Have never met an artist who is the same age as me, who is better than me for my whole life
>Has won every single art competition I've entered in age demographic
>Works hard, managed to get an entire designer wardrobe (I care about fashion a lot oof)
>Been one of the best non native Japanese speakers in the country since I was 15 for my age
>Gets scholarships for every school I've signed up for
I wish I was better at more things than just drawing, but it's what I want my job to be so I suppose it's okay

No. 69451

I speak 5 languages. I'm from a country that generally only speaks one (so I didn't have the privilege of speaking multiple before the age of 3, I learned them all starting from age 12). They're not all similar languages either (because Latin-based languages are really easy to pick up once you know one). Two of the languages I speak are uncommon so I'm really happy to be keeping them alive. I think it's really important to learn languages which are struggling and whose countries don't have the funding places like France and Spain have to pump into the governments of foreign countries to put French and Spanish on school syllabuses.

Also I have three degrees that I'm really proud of.

No. 69452

What age did you start working at? You couldn't have gone to college if you're only 22.

No. 69456

How old were you when you started making changes and improving?

I'm 23 and I feel like it's too late to suddenly become hot. Like that time has passed for me. But what you described is where I desperately want to end up.

No. 69459


Different anon, but 23/24 is when I started to get really serious about eating well/exercising, teaching myself about makeup and skincare, and establishing a real sense of style and good wardrobe. So 23 is definitely not too late!

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No. 44548[Reply]

New relationshit general since the other has reached post limit.

Any ideas on how to get partner to try rougher sex (choking, etc)? He's so afraid of hurting me or leaving marks but I'm into that shit. I guess it doesn't help he personally knew my ex who did sexually abuse me.
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No. 69432

both good advice. a lot of these guys look for things online because they're not desirable to the women in the world around them, and it's usually for good reasons. this online stuff only makes sense to me if you're a real oddball and you've come across your identical oddball match online and are willing to meet before long to see if it can be real.

No. 69434

It can't be discounted that the younger generation probably just feels more comfortable socializing electronically. Meeting someone online shouldn't carry the stigma of being undesirable irl anymore.

No. 69435

that's true, with online dating and all.. but with the subject being ldr, online dating never crossed my mind because to me its for finding people where you live or pretty close
but anyway you're right, go ahead and replace "a lot of these guys look for things online" with "some guys look for things on odd parts of the internet" then, i think that's still fitting at least.

No. 69449

Is it wrong of me to be upset that my bf has decided to start smoking weed regularly again? We both had previously had a serious psychological addiction to it and I quit a few years ago because it caused me a huge mental breakdown. I'm now 23 and my quality of life has improved 1000℅. He quit about a year and a half ago and we moved out of our shitty house and all our drug related ties fell away. We live in a nice house now and both have good jobs. He recently caught up with an "old friend" while I was away and he smoked up with him, and after I came home he's since decided to pick it up again. I can't stand the smell and I dont want it in our house, we've worked so hard to get to where we are and it really upsets me to think he'll slip back into bad habits since he has a very addictive personality. I know weed isn't like a hard drug or anything but considering our history its just distressing. Am I overreacting?

No. 69458

>weed isn't like a hard drug or anything but considering our history

True that it isn't as harmful as heroin or meth, but it certainly does affect your brain. I'm pro medicinal marijuana, I think it's wonderful for people who have seizures and chronic pain and plenty of other issues. Still, you have the experience to know that it's not good for you and your bf, so I think it's reasonable to be against him using it. I hate how the people apart of the legal weed movement just gloss over that it CAN be harmful. (By either exacerbating mental illness or causing a psychological dependance, despite screeching that "IT'Z NOT ADDICTIVE, LOSER.")

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No. 44295[Reply]

This is a thread for females seeking female friends.

If you see a male post in this thread, report them then ignore their post. No need to point it out or reply.

Please include the following info in your post:

> Your age

> Preferred age range for friends
> Your hobbies, interests, and why you are looking for friends
> Contact info
> Any other relevant details (location, language, timezone, whatever)

Don't be afraid to reach out! You will meet more potential friends if you post your info and respond to others rather than just posting and never checking the thread again.
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No. 68994

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>tfw you've contacted a couple of girls one here and they all don't check their kik or have disconnected it

>tfw you haven't been contacted by anybody except robots

Pic related

No. 68995

Also the "Maria Green" person was just a bot

No. 69002

> Your age

Sup' I'm 22 year old!!

> Preferred age range for friends

Honestly I'm hoping for someone who's in their 20's but 18+ is fine.

> Your hobbies, interests, and why you are looking for friends

Hobbies: Watching documentaries/Movies, listening to podcasts, watching anime (but definitely way less than I use to), collecting art books, wood turning, playing mmos/mobas, shopping(legit it's a hobby for me to be honest)

Interests: goth j-fashion, character building/digital painting, cooking/baking, and surface design (putting my designs on like shirts/backpacks/ etc)

Moved to So.Cal(Pasadena) to attend ArtCenter, I've made a few friends but since I have no family here is't kinda lonely.Would be nice to have more people to talk to.
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No. 69445

> Your age

> Preferred age range for friends

18+ is okay!

> Your hobbies, interests, and why you are looking for friends

I lurk a lot on lolcow and tumblr. I used to do a lot of art, specifically mixed media, but not so much rn bc mental illness lol. i like cooking and baking, i'm veg but i like to bake vegan. i like cats and art and movies and tv series (asip, bobs burgers, b99). i like ~indie~ music i guess, i listen to a lot of bright eyes and fiona apple, i also love disco. i smoke a lot of weed, that's basically my main hobby lmfao. i'm kind of a shut in and don't have many irl friends so i'm just looking for more people to talk to! i also genuinely don't like or trust men so i want more girl friends lol. i'm a feminist and a liberal but i'm not a sjw, obviously. i'm also lgbtq, if that matters.

> Contact info


> Any other relevant details (location, language, timezone, whatever)

i live in new england, more specifically the coldest part of new england. i work nights so i'm usually up at very weird hours

No. 69457

It isn't working when I try and add you : (

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No. 49328[Reply]

Alright so there are these makeup / skin care threads but I didn't see any PS one yet it's something that's mentioned a lot at /pt/ and /snow/.
I got a nose job some years ago and I'm VERY satisfied with the outcome (feel free to ask me questions about rhinoplasty if you have any concern about it). RN I'm looking forward getting jaw surgery done but I don't have much information about this procedure in Europe. Any advice?
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No. 69394

i've had a rhinoplasty, it went great and i don't ever want to have any other plastic surgery. not addicting at all for me.

No. 69395

It depends. Some people feel insecure about an actual flaw of theirs (for example, let's say their nose) for years, then fix it through PS and finally feel good about themselves.
Some other people, instead, are unhappy with everything in themselves, or have unrealistic standards of beauty (see: human Ken etc.), and end up becoming addicted because their body dysmorphia is so bad it's never enough for them.

No. 69424


I guess I'm the type you mentioned. I plan on getting septoplasty to fix my breathing but the more I think about it, I really want to get rhinoplasty done as well. I know for sure after that I'll have a laundry list of procedures I want as I already want them.

No. 69447


You made me super scared of getting a jaw shave. I mean, I would only get it if I were rich but now I think I'll just deal with my square jaw. It sucks but at least by checking out this website made me solidify my choice in wanting a nose job. I think my dad would kill me if I got lip injections so I'm currently saving up for a nose job and might get a second job for it since I want to be able to afford it ASAP. It's been an insecurity of mine since I was 11 and I almost always burst out crying when I see profile candid shots of me. My nose is too big since I have small eyes and lips. I wish I had big doe eyes and mouth but we can't all be blessed.
How much is a nose job in Ontario? Or for nosejons in general should I go to an American doctor? Or just find whatever doctor I believe would do me the best ?

No. 69454

I don't know anon, sometimes I look at my face and start coming up with more and more things I'd like to do in the heat (and insecurity) of the moment (lips, jaw botox, even lip lift) but then I rationalize and realize that if the nose job goes well and balances my features I won't need anything else. Maybe you only think you'll come up with a laundry list of procedures because your nose makes you insecure so you assume you'll need more than that, but imo if the surgeon does a good job you'll quickly forget about any other procedure. A nose can change an entire face.

There's nothing wrong with square jaws, don't let absurd beauty standards sway you. Just open a random model website and check how many of them have a square jaw.
Look at this post >>55045 for what regards the surgeon choice

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No. 69267[Reply]

What are your thoughts on getting engaged / married? Are any farmers here already the latter? Did you get a ring or have a proposal? How was the wedding planning experience? Have you discussed it with your s/o or maybe don't want to get married at all?

Just anything you want to add to the discussion!
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No. 69428

You are going to be screwed with no future for retirement due to starting work experience so late. I think your bf is right, you can't really be ready for marriage unless you both equally contribute to the relationship and that includes financially.

No. 69429

I've been married for 2 years. We didn't have a marriage party. We weren't interested in feeding a lot of people that barely care about us. Also we are not religious so we just married for the convenience of it (so we are legally a family, in case one of us dies we have right to inherit stuff, etc.).

No. 69446

Early 20s.

No. 69448

This plus I thought it was okay for Jewish women to marry outside of their religion. Isn't the point of that to spread Judaism from the mother to her children?

No. 69461

Not that anon but, you know what year this is right? I bet you think dating apps like bumble that force the girl to be proactive are full of 'manchildren' too right? Everyone should get the sand out of their vages. Do we want to bend the gender roles or not?

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No. 69438[Reply]

What's your story/experience? It could be guy-friendship related or dating related. Could be anything that creeped you out, bothered you, etc.

I met a guy off Tinder and it started out well at first. He put a lot of effort to spend time with me like hanging out at random places or playing vidya games together. He genuinely seemed cool and not a fck boi. But one personality quirk I couldn't stand was he constantly made fun of me like an elementary school kid. And he did this to his other friends too, but it just seemed like he could never stop. I even told him up front that I'm sensitive and I don't find some of your jokes poking fun at me to be funny and its tiring hearing the same joke over and over. I mean we teased each other time to time, but if it goes too far I wanted him to know. And he just responds with a half hearted apology like "me sowwie, that's just who I am. I do that to everyone, blah blah". Like we both opened up to each other about personal things, so I thought oh okay, he has a serious side. I can look past the immaturity. But he will bring these things up later on and somehow poke fun in it and eventually I just told him to grow up and he replies "LOL you got triggered". It's annoying he can't respect people's boundaries. I'm starting to understand now why he is single. Another minor thing that annoyed me was whenever we went out he was constantly putting things on his snapchat. Like he couldn't just enjoy the moment. He would even be mean and post shit on his SC like "who wears this with that outfit?" making fun of me. He posted a snap of another girl (friend) before making fun of her clothes saying it looks like a night gown and she tried to cover up his phone. I like funny guys, but there's a fine line between funny and rudely immature.

No. 69443

Huh OP, I was just thinking earlier today about making a thread on this!

>set up a date with guy from online dating site

>from his profile he looks attractive, has many hobbies and seems to be overall a nice person
>meet up at coffee shop
>he smells like a barn
>has REALLY bad teeth. like piss-yellow colour, super crooked and jagged
>looked about 20 pounds heavier than his online photos
>can't really remember what we talked about, because I was so turned off I just wanted to get out of there
>made an excuse and left after half an hour
>months later tried to add me on facebook…

It could have been way worse, but yeah, that was my worst date.
I've corresponded with guys who were way weirder but they were filtered out before we got to the first date.

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No. 50546[Reply]

There is a thread for 3D guys you want to fug, can we have one for 2D too? Post dem husbandos.
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No. 69075

I havent watched disney films in forever but off the top of my head scar from lion king, jafar from aladdin. Also female villians like the evil queen from disneys snow white, they tend to have the same eyelash detail. I know this is different because this is CG but my hunches were correct on first viewing.

Yeah i'm with you I totally dig his outfit (good choice with the goblin king too!)


No. 69085

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No. 69089

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Here are my Yo-Kai Watch husbandos

No. 69103

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found a 2D drawing. it counts now.

No. 69419

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fuuuck I came here to post about how fucking embarrassed I am about this animu crush I'm so glad I'm not the only one
Also it definitely helps that he's a teacher

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No. 44407[Reply]

Do you have sick or weird fetishes that you hate having or can't tell people about?

BDSM doesn't get me off like it used to. I'm really into grotesque monsters and guro. The thought of being in a snuff film really gets me off. I want to be used as a limbless fuck doll. Necrophilia and Stockholm syndrome turn me on too.

I can't admit this to my partners. It's not like i actually want anything like that to happen to me anyway. I just feel like an edgelord and a psychopath.
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No. 69353

She DID break up with her boyfriend, dumbshit.

No. 69360


I don't have too much of a thing for older men, but I do have a thing for really intelligent people and esp. STEM people. I've had little crushes on professors before and don't think age is a big deal to me, but tread carefully.

My bf is an engineer and it's embarrassing how hot and bothered it can get me thinking about crossing that over with sex. Sometimes it feels like talking about our shared technical interests and hearing how smart he is just makes me want to bed him. We've both taken photos for each other that were sexual and involving that fetish. "Sapiosexual" stuff is cringey as fuck but tbh maybe I have a taste of that in me lel

I've thought about volunteering at an old folk's home because I like older people a lot. They're underappreciated and have a lot to teach us and tell us about.

No. 69375

I like men that are loudmouth assholes in public but obedient subs behind closed doors. Pushing someone into subspace is incredibly gratifying.

There's a lot I want to try but my partner currently is very vanilla so they're off the table e.g. strap ons, rope suspension, electrical play, etc. I also find puppy play very interesting aesthetically. But every guy I've ever met that's into it has been gay.

No. 69389

Bicurious or bi men. I wish I had a bf to teach how to suck dick and to have him cuck me win men. I am a fujo, which is definitely related.

No. 69409

Here we go I guess
>femdom (gentle and rough)
>molestation/being helpless despite putting up a fight
>tentacles and other variants
>uniforms (scientist lab coat more specifically)
>being deeply desired/loved (i sound like a narcissist but having someone tell me i'm theirs and theirs only in a dominant tone makes my heart skip a beat)
>being restrained
>role reversing (being generally bossy and a brat to them until they switch the tables)

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