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No. 63860[Reply]

anyone else annoyed with the weight gaining trend? I understand if it's an anorexic girl recovering, but I'm talking about the girls who look fine but shove every little debbie and pizza they can find down their throat and think it will go straight to their ass and tits then come to the sad disappointment when everything BUT their ass and tits get larger
it's trending on the internet and being encouraged by moronic men who think gaining weight will make a girls butt or boobs bigger, it's sad when perfectly thin petite girls with slight curves become average chubby girls because of the weight gain shit

anyone had experiences with this or anything like this? thoughts on the weight gain trend?
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No. 63923

also the girl in OPs pic "pooch" is a lot more narrow, which is how abdominal muscles get after working out ab muscles for a few months
in fact, it's more narrow than >>63922 abs, notice how her ab muscles get more narrow after she does more and more workouts

sage for samefag (lul)

No. 63933

Girl in OP photo was an anorexic girl and then an orthorexic girl who recovered. Her handle is BodyPosiPanda. She didn't gain weight for men and she hardly posts food pictures, so I have no idea if she did it healthily or not.

There is no weight gain "trend", the diet industry is still incredibly profitable, and a handful of instagram famous recovery/body positive chicks won't change that.

No. 63941

Oh, so OP is an even dumber faggot than I thought. Hah, probably some assblasted anachan upset at her puke warrior not being a twig anymore and looking for a scapegoat.
>I know, muh thicc culture!!11!!

No. 63944


Of course she's ex-ana. Op is from /fit/ and /fit/ has no idea what healthy women look like.

No. 63945

Derailing users have been tempbanned. Please continue.

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No. 61059[Reply]

worst thing someone has ever done to you in a relationship but you didn't break up with them for it?

This can be fights, manipulation, lying, cheating, ignoring at bad moments etc
basically when your partner did something awful but it didn't result in breakup, or if you are telling a story from a past relationship, it didn't result in the final breakup

what's your relationship limit? what would you break up with someone over?
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No. 63792

jesus christ, some of the shit in here. farmers, you guys need to love yourselves and break up with these people if they treat you like trash tbh.

i'm also talking out of my ass though because i got extremely lucky with my first bf. we've been dating for four years and he's great. now. when i met him he was kind of an asshole, really into 4chan "culture," loved racist jokes (i am b/w mixed btw, and he told me a joke about sending a crate of bananas to africa for aid and was confused when i didn't find it funny) but i put my foot down pretty early on and said if he didn't change, it was over. funny thing is, he's really into black girls so idk. if it had continued, i would've dumped his ass. i know racist jokes seem like something trivial to break up over, but it upset me, and if he'd continued to tell them i would've definitely ended it.

fast forward to the present day, he's a very sweet guy. still browses 4chan (we both do), but mostly /v/, and not /int/ or /pol/ anymore lol

aside from that, any sort of physical, mental, or emotional abuse is a definite red flag. break-up would be imminent in those cases.

No. 63794

There's a lot of racist white guys who actually really like black girls, its surprising.

No. 63795

Racist jokes aren't really trivial especially when you're the race he's joking about and especially if you never make racial jokes about him

No. 63868

I had an ex like that. He was an avid Reddit user and really into gaming culture, which is sexist, racist and just generally toxic as fuck about 95% of the time.

My mistake was not really correcting his behavior since I just figured that's how he was and growing up on the internet I had seen a lot worse anyway. So I never genuinely put my foot down aside from a few "aw, don't say that" or "that wasn't funny at all" moments and once we broke up I guess the reddit side took over based off the last few times we talked and he was 10x worse.

No. 63937

Sounds pretty similar to my bf. When I met him he browsed 4chan (so did I so I didn't really see a problem with it) and he made some sexist jokes that really shocked me. Fast forward a few years and he actually thanked me for calling him out on that when I did as he genuinely didn't realise that what he was saying was hurtful and he's a better person now because of it.

I've noticed that men tend to respond better when you act hurt or pretend you're advising them as a friend instead of appearing offended or lecturing them (both are seen as confrontational). I guess it's the testosterone but they really get off on making others angry, especially little shits on 4chan/reddit. They legit see that as them "winning". I know it seems really anti-feminist to pretend to be a little hurt, delicate flower but it's actually quite empowering when you realise for the first time that you can say "hey, you hurt my feelings…" and suddenly they get all apologetic (and if they don't well, then, that's 100% the time to leave them).

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No. 45776[Reply]

The old thread hit bump limit a while ago and I miss it.
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No. 63278

It's supposed to be prescribed for cystic acne only if you've tried literally everything else(daily washing, AHA/BHA products, diet changes, exercise, hormones etc.) and haven't seen any improvement

No. 63404

Retin-a is amazing for skin and I totally recommend it. Even though it requires long term commitment, if you stop you basically just get your old skin back. There is a really gross flaky period like a month or so in, but afterwords skin is just SO glowing and beautiful. It helps prevent wrinkles long term too. The only thing that sucks is treating dry skin/using spf but that's really minimal and necessary regardless. If you end up going to a derm and getting it, try to pick up a lower dosage one (definitely not .1 like I started with).

BP facewashes are notoriously drying, have you tried using benzoyl peroxide spot treatments instead since your acne isn't severe?

No. 63423

Accutane is basically isotretinoin. Yes, it's available in every country. Just say "isotretinoin" to your derm and he will understand

No. 63730

I went ahead an bought some hemp seed oil like I said I would. Cold pressed. I'm very happy with it.

It looks gross (green & thick like olive oil) and smells grassy, but when I apply it to my skin and hair, the odor fades away. No one could smell it. The oil absorbs quickly instead of sitting on on the surface. No grimy feel. I actually had to apply more oil to my body a few hours later because my skin absorbed it all and was still a bit dry.

I apply a few drops straight to my scalp and ends of my hair before a shower. After the shower, I mix 5-6 drops with some Cetaphil and slather that on my face and body generously.

I was expecting it to be disgusting, but I think I'm gonna be using this every day. My skin is retaining moisture a lot better. The camellia oil I was using is shit in comparison to this.

No. 63932

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just bought this from sephora yesterday. I've wanted a Dr Jart product for a while since the rest of my skincare routine is Korean based but I knew the brand was pricier. I'm hoping it'll even out my skin tone. I get red cheeks and oily skin. I was going to just get a BB cream but the rep at the store told me this will help the problem and not cover it up. Gonna start using this week and see how it goes.

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No. 63540[Reply]

title explains it all, I'm going to dump my lolita/cosplay folder, its mostly "cutesy" type DIYs such as clothes, food, makeup, etc
feel free to contribute
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No. 63803

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sorry about the horse

No. 63807


ahaha aww that's shinju, she's actually really cool and a very good costumer.

No. 63810

just to clarify, i wasnt calling the cosplayer a horse. it was because mlp.

No. 63841

My cosplay folder is filled with stuff to prepare for conventions so a lot of skin care,hair care and body/health stuff is included

And yee, but you have to use the right fabric and all, if it helps the craft store here sells ruffles made up already, so when my dress needs ruffles or to hide bad stitching i sew the already made up ruffles or lace to it and hide it

No. 63925

I wanna make this, but idk what the measurements say

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No. 60919[Reply]

Is close female friendship even possible?ive always wanted a best friend but if always seems girls are super close with each other for a little while then they end up hating each other out of nowhere. Is it even worth trying to find friends?
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No. 62443

i'm sorry for all anons who had bad experiences with female friends, i spent a chunk of my life very alone and i know how frustrating it can get. but if you're not able to form a meaningful, geniune relationship with at least one or two of billions of females on this planet, please consider the fact that there may be something wrong with you rather than the half of the human population.

No. 63869

i was best friends with this one girl since the tender age of 5. she would always say awful shit to me and make me cry but i ignored it out of genuine sisterly affection for her. i should have realized how shitty she was sooner, but i was a child and i didn’t want to lose my best friend who by that point i had known for half of my life. the abrupt end to our friendship happened one year out of high school when she randomly blocked me on all social media (not before talking a ton of shit about me to her other friends behind my back lol) because supposedly i was the toxic one. she never even bothered to be upfront with me about the problems she had with me, she just bottled it up for ages and never fucking brought it up so of course it came as a huge shock to me when she cut off contact. i begged her for closure through our other mutual friends, but she was such a massive coward that she ignored that, too.

joke’s on her because i’ve been best friends with her other close friend (who she introduced me to) for about 10 years now and we’ve never had a falling out. i think the closest thing to a “fight” we had was when he got miffed at me for accidentally spoiling an episode of a TV show. our friendship is less drama and way more fun, and i never realized how dysfunctional my friendship with her was until i found a real friend who truly cares.

like the previous anon >>62350 said, friendships with either sex are a mixed bag. most female friends i’ve had have either stabbed me in the back or just simply drifted away from me. there is a trickier balance with women in some ways but it can be really rewarding, and i think girls are like cats in that sense. they’ll let you get close one minute and claw you the next, but every cat is different and some are more trustworthy than others. i haven’t given up hope that i’ll find a female friend eventually and i can’t let one nightmarish cunt color my perception of an entire gender.

No. 63914

This one hundred times. Theres a lot of 'oh girls were terrible to me when I was in school', it sounds like you let your teen years cement your ideas of all girls being shit, and are determined to carry that cross for the rest of your life - using that to explain why despite you being the common denominator, its everyone else's fault that you cant maintain a friendship.

All my close female friendships (5+ years of strong close good times) I've made were with girls who I first met over the internet and then met up with irl, so I think anons who mentioned trying to make friends with women who you don't think would be good prospects due to looks is good advice.

No. 63915

I went to an all-girls school before high school which I think made me lean more towards female friends since then.

The biggest thing I feel is that I'm not outgoing so I've met a lot of people through work/college/cons that I see and can chat with them, but I've never hung out with them outside of that so we never become more than acquaintances.
I'm lucky for my friends as 95% of the time it was because they invited me in and we clicked.

No. 63919

The majority of my close girl friends i met throuhout highschool and early college. Lately it seems more difficult to make girl friends since I came out as a lesbian, which doesn't make sense to me since i'm not particularly sexual or lgbt politics obsessed. On the one hand it weeds out homophobic people automatically, but on the other hand it is annoying that girls always assume i want to fuck them just because i'm gay.

I do believe close female friendships are possible, i have several close female and male friendships. They're a different dynamic in each type but female friendships feel a lot like a sisterhood to me where I can share more personal emotional problems and also lighter stufr like feminine hobbies (makeup, clothes, cutesy stuff, going to dance or art classes together). I think having female friends also helped me understand what is important to me in a romantic relationship and how to be happy without one when i would be going through breakups (i've never needed to constantly seek out romantic relationships to fill an intimacy void like lots of women i know without close girl friends). Probably the biggest factor in maintaining female friendships is having a secure view of yourself, not falling into self comparison or jealousy with other women and having friends that do the same jn return. I had several friendships before that tanked pretty early on because girls would make petty jealous comments or try to bring me down so I would feel less smart, less talented at something, or less beautiful/attractivre than them. Those relationships are honestly a waste of time.

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No. 44407[Reply]

Do you have sick or weird fetishes that you hate having or can't tell people about?

BDSM doesn't get me off like it used to. I'm really into grotesque monsters and guro. The thought of being in a snuff film really gets me off. I want to be used as a limbless fuck doll. Necrophilia and Stockholm syndrome turn me on too.

I can't admit this to my partners. It's not like i actually want anything like that to happen to me anyway. I just feel like an edgelord and a psychopath.
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No. 63752

I'm guessing you liked that Alien: Isolation game then.

No. 63787

He might have to be open to the idea to start. My ex asked me to pee on him before and honestly no amount of being drunk or shower sex or pissing in the toilet in front of each other ever made me comfortable enough to do that.

But most guys more open to kinky stuff/peeing on shit in general. If your bf is the type of guy to pee on snow you're probably a-ok.

No. 63824

I like calling my boyfriend daddy

No. 63848

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Same anon as >>63522 and >>63611 and I forgot something (Not sure how, but I just didn't think about it lol)

I also reaaally like the idea of being asleep in the same room as some guy (for example this guy that I know has a crush on me/want to do me) and start moaning in my sleep and the guy gets a boner. Sometimes I fantasize that I either would accidentally show some nipple or bum (pic related) while sleeping or the dude would very very gently do it. He either would jack off it on the same room (but far from me) or go to the bathroom or something.

But it's funny tho, because it's the kind of thing I would never know if it truly happened IRL. Unless a guy said that to me - which can threaten our friendship so I don't see why he would-, I can never know for sure, but it's still a fantasy of mine.

Sorry about this, anon. But yeah, I love being cuddled while awake yes lol Indeed, the dream.

No. 63857


>>63534 and >>63535 anon again, this is also a fantasy I have ughh

I have no clue where it comes from, and if it happened irl I don't know how I would react, I mean obviously you would have to catch them in act or have them tell you or you wouldn't know about it, I think its one of those things that doesn't translate real into real life and is it better just to look at in hentai or something.

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No. 63092[Reply]

Old thread: >>44951

For anyone seeking advice about their problems or anything.
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No. 63815

What the fuck, that kind of shit doesn't exist where I live. We don't all live in hipster capitals anon.

No. 63816

So sometimes this is a red flag and sometimes it's not. If you're bros, then this is a bro thing to do.

I suggest going out in public though to drink. A good first step if you haven't drank before is over some dinner. Go to buffalo wild wings or some other casual friend place if you're not looking for a relationship, get yourself some booze, and have a friend pick you up (If he suggests driving you home just tell him "They're already on their way."

Don't let paranoia keep you from hanging out with this guy but be cautious too.

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No. 63821

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No. 63846


most of it, and i'm not happy but enlightened.

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No. 56878[Reply]

I'm not sure if there's been a thread about this but maybe we can post hygiene tips especially girl hygiene tips?
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No. 63688

Anyone really hairy? I have an actual mustache that I have to pluck every 3 or 4 days. It's left me with a five o'clock shadow and I either have that or look like a shemale. Any routines or permanent solutions? I'll take anything

No. 63833

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Does anyone use an epilator? I've been using one for the past few years but noticed this past year that I have a bunch of black dots on my legs where the hair used to be, so I've picked at some with a tweezer and found them to be a bunch of little ingrown hairs.

I have tried exfoliating + shaving afterwards but there's still so many black little dots.

No. 63834

sounds like a hormonal thing. get checked out for polycystic ovaries or thyroid issues.

No. 63835

i have the same problem, even when waxing. i was hoping epilating would make it better but nope, still ingrown hairs/black spots. i tried everything, exfoliating before epilating and every kind of scrub, i have no idea how to get rid of them other than laser but i cant afford that shit :(

No. 63845


solution to most body hair problems is either laser epilation, or not giving a fuck.

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No. 63152[Reply]

Old thread: >>47022

We've got plenty of underrated dudes on lolcow but are there any men that you're ashamed to say you'd fuck for any reason? Men who are ugly, unattractive, average-looking, creepy, weird or just plain shameful? It doesn't have to be a big reason that you're ashamed, just say why.

Admit your thirst, farmers.
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No. 63820

Same, he's been one of my favourite actors ever since i saw Little miss sunshine

No. 63826

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dolph lundgren was literal perfection in the 1980s
if you google him, all you can find is homoerotic bodybuilding forum threads about him though

No. 63827

Samefag but hell yea, everybody wanted to fuck Dolph when that movie came out, even straight dudes


Break me off a piece of that daddy.

No. 63828

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I love bo burnham… his comedy is hilarious. but his nose is kinda ugly but I've always found him oddly cute.

No. 63830

he is cute, nothing odd about it

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No. 59063[Reply]

Would anyone be interested in a girl-oriented anonymous imageboard? Including boards like


Would you be a user?
Which boards should be considered?
How friendly would you want the board tone to be (strict moderation)?
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No. 61642

Me too. This place is nice and I'm happy to have an imageboard with much less salt.

No. 63279

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God damn it, Spoony.

No. 63280

Pretty sure she still lurks and/or posts here too, since she knew about Mystery's rants and posted about them on /cgl/.

No. 63813

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i don't completely ~disagree~ with this but it irks me a bit. i get that we're making a safe space for women to freely be themselves but i don't think it's necessary to be rude to just any male. i know a lot of them are terrible especially the ones that thrive in the internet but how about the ones that aren't assholes and can keep up a civil smart conversation? i'm not expecting there to be a lot of those but i personally like hearing both sides to see the bigger picture if that makes any sense. i just don't think it's nice to have to stoop down to their level of immaturity and hostility. it sounds more of getting even, i guess? i do love this idea of a female oriented imageboard without the catty-ness and i'm excited to see how it'll turn out!

No. 63829

They'll be there even with the rule. There are good male posters here who actually do find some of the threads in /g/ relevant to them or that enjoy the more general threads in /ot/. A blanket no men rule would punish the male posters that actually participate and aren't here to find a GF or to fuck with people, in the event that mentioning their gender is necessary or if they slip up. There should just be rules and mods to target r9k trolls and male posters starting "male here" threads and mentioning their gender when not relevant/necessary in their posts. How relevant it is to mention your gender might be pretty opinionated so maybe it's better to have a rule like this than to be too lax and have annoying, attention seeking male posters, but I think it could be done well.

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