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No. 58871[Reply]

Here we can discuss black hair issues etc

>be black

>2 years ago I would have been shamed for wearing my natural hair
>the "natural hair" meme started around 2015ish
>now in 2017 you're considered a slut/hood rat if you straighten your hair and or wear weave
>the only acceptable "natural hair" is the mixed girl kind, when people mean go natural that is what they expect your hair to be like.
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No. 61727


anon are you okay?

No. 61777

>girls with loose curls struggle with the same shit you do.

I don't think this is true. There's a pretty obvious disadvantage to having hair so coiled and coarse that it doesn't have an obvious curl pattern cause it just tangles into itself.

To be honest, life would be a lot easier if my hair had actual, loose curls. My mom didn't want to deal with my nappy, coiled hair when I was a toddler, so she relaxed it and it left me with two large bald spots that I cant hide until it's long enough to manipulate into hairstyles mimicking a looser curl pattern now that I'm trying to go natural because my hair in its natural state won't reach a length that would mask it due to curlier hair showing less length

That and curlier hair is typically drier and more prone to damage due to dryness because the oils from your scalp won't travel down the hair shaft, so that's another challenge of having doily 4c hair as opposed to loose curls

I mean, not saying you don't have any problems with yours, but it's really not the same as having 4c hair

No. 63995

I'm african and my mom relaxed my hair since grade school (funnily enough before that i got bullied for having natural hair by none other than other black girls). Then in 11th grade I went natural until the end of my freshman year of college, and it was really hard to deal with or do anything with. My hair would shrink to the point of matting like a rug no matter what I did with it or stretching it out. Went back to relaxing after that. I usually get braids so it's no big deal anyway, I don't mind straightening my hair since I don't do it often.

No. 64108

I have 4c hair but it's pretty soft and def has an obvious curl pattern. It didn't have one until I learned how to take care of it properly, though, so I guess you just have to find what does it for you. After experimenting for a while, it's soft and bouncy! I just embrace the shrinkage as a characteristic of my hair. Chasing a looser curl pattern rather than figuring out your own will only end in disappointment.

I've noticed (personally, in my rl exchanges), that it seems that women with the most trouble with their natural 4 hair just don't know how to do their hair and since they've had straight hair all their lives and don't understand that it's simply a different kind of work. Your hair should not be getting tangled too badly after only a few hours/day. My hair detangles after running it through the shower if I'm taking care to keep it healthy and hydrated, so maybe your hair isn't getting the right kind of protection? Maybe try letting the sebum get to the ends of your hair?

I'm not disagreeing, but so many people treat 4c hair like its the worst possible thing when it's manageable as long as you treat it like it should be, not treating it like your permed hair or just following everyone else's formula.

Matted like a rug? How? Is it hydrated and cleansed? That only happens to me if I leave my hair out and don't comb it for three months.

No. 68538

Anyone have any tips on how to stop touching your hair? I hate having to cut my edges everywash day because i keep getting handsy.Also any good high porosity products?

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No. 58349[Reply]

What medicine are you on farmers? Is it for mental health? physical health? How are you dealing with the side effects?

I just got put on bupropion, it's been really helpful for both my depression and body dysmorphia, but I've been getting horrid headaches.
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No. 68512

I tried taking antidepressants but they didn't really work. I guess I never took them long enough. Thankfully my depression has gotten better on its own without me doing much to treat my psychological issues.

Right now I take 10mg Aderall XR for my ADHD. I try not to take it every day. A few days ago I took 20mg and I felt like I was on meth. I fell asleep at 5 in the morning. Lol

How the fuck do these medicines not interfere with each other?

No. 68521

Youcant just stop taking effexor. It will lead to those symptoms you described. Effexor needs to be gradually reduced.
Also search for a trauma therapy, please.

No. 68525

stop just doing what the doctor says then. This is horrifying and I hope you can get off that shit and get better. Find someone who doesn't just care about making money.

No. 68526

I think the US also have a culture that doesn't deal well with negative emotions and everything other than being happy and content is pathologised and medicated away.

No. 68529

My brother, my mom, my grandmother, and two of my aunts have been on Lexapro and say it has helped them 100%. I'm not currently on anything, but tbh I probably should be. I definitely feel existential dread, death anxiety, and ppd (pretty sure I never got over this after giving birth) hanging on me all the time.

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No. 68228[Reply]

Any other les/bi/queeranons here? I figure there must be a few, surprised not to see a thread up already. Come share a feel, friends.
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No. 68504

ya I'm bi and with a man, and I wax lyrical to him about pretty girls I see when i'm out and about. I'd recommending checking out the female fantasies thread if you want to chat with the other queer farmers. There's also a dedicated thread on bisexuality

No. 68509

Sage your shit and let this duplicate thread die

No. 68511

Could someone please link that thread in here?

No. 68513

>can't sage
>can't find a thread in the catalog

Just go read the FAQ already, friend

No. 68514

To be fair that's a sexually slanted "lesbian fantasy", not a general lesbian/bi thread.

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No. 63763[Reply]

Let’s share our favorite "girly" mangas/animes. Any genre is welcome as long as it contains elements aimed at a female audience.
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No. 67063

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Nekota no Koto ga Ki ni Natte Shikatanai is about a elementary school girl whose classmate has a cathead for no reason, its really cute and a good read if you want a girly series with no drama

No. 67081

Why… why do they look so much like Sailor Moon?

No. 67082

That was the aesthetic of the time, the writer actually worked on sailor moon too apparently.

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Best romance!

No. 68423

most romantic and girly vn evar!

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No. 48533[Reply]

Please feel free to vent or ask for advice in this thread pertaining to sexual abuse or harassment, etc

I'm looking for advice on how to build a healthy sexual relationship with my partner after my bad past. We've been married two years and he's fantastic. But my libido is very low and I have a feeling it might be tied to poor sexual relationships I'd had before. Starting at 8 years old and then on out. I'm not really bothered by the past but I think my mind is instantly associating sex with bad times, which shouldn't be the case since my husband is lovely. But my brain instantly is telling me that I dont want to do this or that its just a hassle. Often times when we begin fooling around I get stomach aches that will go away basically instantly when we stop, like he can tell I'm not in the mood so we wont continue. I never thought much of it, I always thought it was just something I ate. But today I figured out maybe it could be anxiety related.

I just want to be able to have a normal sex life with him where we can fool around and have fun, but I feel so bad for having something -wrong- with me. If anons have any advice i'd love to hear. I'm too poor for a therapist and I've scoured the internet for advice as well
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No. 68106

Just my 2 cents anon but I was watching a documentary on YouTube about sexual abusers who prey on children. The woman in it had said that some of them, if reminded, will actually enjoy the memory. Some of these abusers will have no remorse and if sadistic enough, they will not care about your feelings or anything about you, they will not care that they hurt you. They will instead take pleasure in the pain they gave you. So this is your call.

No. 68109

I'd say do it. Write it once then take a breather and re-read to be sure you've said what you wanted to how you wanted to. It can be very therapeutic. Make sure they cannot reply though. Why would you really want to hear back? Even writing a letter you don't intend to send can be helpful, whether it be to the person who abused you or to others who subsequently let you down. All the best anon

No. 68211

I've never fully talked about this but this seems like a decent place to get it all out. My uncle, by marriage, was a total creep and every time I went to spend the night he would grab my breasts and ass, make sexual comments to me, in the mornings he would jump into bed with my cousin and I, pretending to be funny about it, but he always had an erection that he would press against me, or he would hug me/pick me up while pressing his erection on me. Come to find out he was also raping my cousin. He ended his life when I was 16 because she turned him in, so all of this happened before that age, I'd say around 12-15, when I stopped going around him.
At the time, I didn't know what to do about it and was too afraid to tell anyone so I just stopped going to their house to spend weekends with them, which I used to do all the time, those cousins were my best friends, and later, my little sister went to live with them. So long story short, it ruined my relationship with my sister and cousins because they always thought I was avoiding them and didn't want to be around them, I just couldn't bring myself to tell anyone what was really happening, even more so after finding out he was raping my cousin, because then I felt guilty that my situation wasn't as bad as hers.
I don't know what I am getting out of posting this here, I just need to get it out I guess. Sorry for any weird wording, I've had a few drinks, which I guess is what it took to get this out.

No. 68327

I was sexually molested by a family member when I was younger, I've kept it a huge secret for like so many years and told my mom about it like a few years ago.
But I couldn't bring myself to say who it was mostly because he was in a huge motor bike accident andI didn't want to ruin anything.
I recently saw him around Mother's Day with his girlfriend.
I feel like it impacted my life greatly because I felt like as I got older it would happen again and I packed on the pounds.
Like I wanted people to not find me attractive…..but now I'm in a good spot and relationship
But how do I move on from it myself so I can get into a better spot to better me

No. 68357

I got sexually molested by a female "friend" when I was young and I have a hard time befriending or getting too close to females now. This girl basically bullied me (she broke my finger once by slamming it into a door) but lived across the street in a small town, and my mom and her mom talked often, so I'd be stuck there with her when my parents were out. I was told she'd been watching porn and was trying to 'mimick' the acts. She'd make me take my underwear off and look at my crotch and she'd stick stuff in it randomly like toys or lipgloss tubes, then stretch my labia until I told her to stop, they're really long now and I always wonder if that had something to do with it. She'd get on top of me like the 'man' and stick her knee into my crotch and push down on it. It was always really embarrassing and painful and I didn't know what was going on. Her parents only found out about some of the stuff, because they found her on top of me, clothed, in a weird position. After this happened my mom forbid me from seeing her and we moved shortly after. I never told her exactly what happened but she asked if she did other stuff and I said yes. I have a hard time with toys now too because of the weird penetration that happened. I've grown to be disgusted by porn, and most sexual things that aren't just plain sex with my boyfriend, which took almost a year for me to be okay with. The last thing I remember about her was seeing her when my grade school and her middle school had an event together, then I never saw her again.

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No. 64136[Reply]

Thread about fellatio and other sexual things, so my boyfriend has a rather big dick and I can only manage about a third of it without gagging or nearly being sick. I really want to deepthroat him and I feel really embarrassed that I haven't mastered this yet, as I could with previous partners but none were as thick or long as him so it's more difficult.

I try practicing with bananas a little but maybe not enough.

Sorry this thread is somewhat nsfw but I see farmers discuss lots of other things similar so I thought I'll make a thread!
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No. 66543

lol not sure how helpful this will be to you but i always like to have a beer or some whiskey after i give my bf head and it definitely helps

No. 66548

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Not sure if trolling or not. A pussy that taste like curry is like, dream for many men and women.

Imagine if you had some Pizza, too. Oh, the possibilities are endless!

No. 68129

Just let him know that you want to practice. I'm sure he won't complain, unless you're hurting him.

No. 68131

I'm not trolling actually…

No. 68247


Start an Indian takeaway service

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No. 68092[Reply]

Do any farmers plan on becoming a Sugar Momma later in life?

I have plans on staying single until 45 and then start dating a 20-something Korean or Chinese guy.
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No. 68142

I always preferred older guys but as I get close to 30, cute student types are catching my eye. Maybe I'll grow into a cougar, but I'm broke so I don't know how it will work

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No. 68173

I think it would be cool but I need money and damn I don't think I will ever have enough to do a good job of it

No. 68226

I don't know if I'll become one but right now I really really want a sugar momma.

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I want to be a rich lesbian sugar momma but I don't have the money for it :'((((

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No. 65725[Reply]

Hopefully there isn't already a thread about this.
Does anyone have any tips on working out with scoliosis? I suffer from it as well as pretty severe lumbar lordosis. I have a kinda flat butt & try to squat to change it but the back pain is just excruciating. People assume I'm lazy and it sucks because I really do try it's just so hard. I'm currently going to a stretch therapist but I'd like to stay in the gym too and be able to work on my overall fitness, particularly in my glutes and legs.
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No. 65855

Before getting rods in my back, I had pretty bad kiphosis, to the point that most seats were unbearable to sit in.

Besides getting a PT, like others have said:

1. Swimming is a good way to exercise many muscles simultaneously without putting pressure on your back.

2. If you are not that off-kilter, jogging might be good cardio. If it's your legs and knees that hurt, that's just normal.

3. Avoid weights that distribute force across your body, as the spine is a conduit for balancing such forces.

No. 67704

My mum has scoliosis and is around 61 years old. (Also arthritic)
Please do your excersizes And be kind to yourself anons. It can get hard.

No. 67786

I don't (think I) have scoliosis but my back seems to curve that way like in op.

Do you usually have to be born with it or…?

No. 67805

No, it's commonly something that develops in preteen girls. My school screened for it. I have slight forward curvature of the spine from carrying too much when I was that age and a sister of a friend wore a brace for scoliosis.

No. 68227

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My scoliosis is supposed to be mild but the pain is now unbearable. Does anyone else have a protruding shoulder blade and how do you deal with the pain? I think my spine is either pushing on the shoulser muscle or the bone and none of the exercises are helping anymore.

I miss being pain free.

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No. 63860[Reply]

anyone else annoyed with the weight gaining trend? I understand if it's an anorexic girl recovering, but I'm talking about the girls who look fine but shove every little debbie and pizza they can find down their throat and think it will go straight to their ass and tits then come to the sad disappointment when everything BUT their ass and tits get larger
it's trending on the internet and being encouraged by moronic men who think gaining weight will make a girls butt or boobs bigger, it's sad when perfectly thin petite girls with slight curves become average chubby girls because of the weight gain shit

anyone had experiences with this or anything like this? thoughts on the weight gain trend?
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No. 64939

I will never understand women wanting to gain weight! I know bodyshaming women for not fitting a certain aesthetic will always exist, but I've always hated when I gain weight because clothes look like shit. It's so much easier to find decent/cheap clothes when you're skinny!

But seriously, who the fuck cares what other people think of your body? There's literally nothing you can do to change what people think, just focus on what makes YOU happy and comfortable with yourself.

No. 64946

Idgi either. Maybe it's because of my age/culture but I can't see any appeal to a big ass or thighs or anything really. A round ass sure, but big is just, ugh.

I'm sure it's just another weird fad like corsets and bustles so surgical implants is completely crazy imo. butt implants are disgusting and look even more freakish than the giant thighs lifters/squatting obsessives get.

No. 64948

Thanks for sharing that exciting information with us, 30 inch waist chan

No. 68213

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I like charli howards weight gain tbh, given she was anorexic before, but it actually looks realistic, unlike all the ~curvy models~ who have concave stomachs, tiny 20 inch waists, big perky tits, 50 inch hips and thighs bigger than their waist, all while having no double skin

No. 68219

You care is what.

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No. 62447[Reply]

Post a picture of or describe that kind of style you're going for & caring anons can respond with links to stuff or beauty/outfit advice.

Pic as I loved early KotaKoti style even though she's a trash human. I still do. It's not in trend anymore but I don't care. Any tips for building a wardrobe like this and hair/lenses/makeup? "Order shitty taobao stuff" doesn't really help.
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No. 68093

The wedding is a church thing, but I was definitely thinking of wearing a jean jacket or sheer scarf/shawl with it. But also, the website stated the model is 5'7" and I'm 5'2", so I think it'll be a lot longer on me, maybe even almost hitting my ankles.

No. 68094

hmmm i think if it was at least mid-calf length and you had something over it, it's a bit dramatic but totally workable. a jacket/shawl in a matte finish fabric and minimalistic accessories would tone it down too, i think.

No. 68101

i actually think that style is hard to pull off, and even on that model i hate it. it just never looks good. you can find way, way nicer things to wear to someone's wedding. and jean jacket and shawl with that?? mid calf length? what the hell? i don't know what kind of person/dresser you are, but by that description i'm imagining you're 17 or something. try ASOS petites, they even have a wedding section, wear something interesting and cool but classy if you have a great figure

No. 68114

agree, that dress is terrible and with a jean jacket to a church wedding lol i mean wtf

No. 68116


that's tacky as fuck for a wedding OP.

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