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No. 59370[Reply]

Oh how trash she is. Only 16 yet talks like a 60 year old white man. Recent posts and stuff has come to light. what will she threaten the meanie lolitas with next?

No. 59371

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No. 59273[Reply]

Hey fellow girls, what's your favourite penis size, and what's the general consensus on 5.5 inches?
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No. 59277

Favorite penis size is gargantuan, just like everyone else. 5.5 inch only? Do the world a favor and don't even bother women with such an insufficient amount of dick. Your best solution is to save up for surgery so you can get more length added or maybe a 3rd ball. If you're too poor for that, then just cut it off and become a monk.

No. 59279

5.5 inches? Nippledick.

No. 59280

I only fuck 10+ inches. If you're under that, well, it's time to put a hole in your throat.

No. 59282

5.5? I hope you're a robot Virgin and no girl ever had to look at this laugh inducing shit. That's pathetic.

No. 59284

Moved to >>>/sty/3409.

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No. 58494[Reply]

does anyone here have a large amount of followers online?

recently one of my posts blew up and i gained 10k followers in the course of a week. i wasn't trying to gain followers, it just happened one day.. of course i'm not really 'famous' but there's a lot of attention on me at the moment.

my main problem is the creepy men. it literally happened overnight, so i didn't have a chance to put my account on private. i enjoy interacting with my new followers, but some of the comments and DMs i get make me really uncomfortable. mainly porn/voyeurism accounts messaging me.
share your stories about internet attention here i guess!
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No. 58609

I used to be one of those relatively "famous" photo whores after my pics got spread a lot from around circa 2008 onwards until around 2016. Occasionally the odd photo will cross my eyes though.
I only held onto one of my online accounts but deleted practically everything there spare random bullshit no one cares about with no face involved.
I like the peace and there's no worries about being doxxed anymore.
It had its ups and downs, and admittedly I do miss the attention every once in a while but I prefer it this way obviously.

No. 58619

Years ago, I used to be fairly popular with a certain fandom on Tumblr. I have a "canon url" and did shitty silly cosplays that folks found funny. It was fun for a while, until I was leaving class (uni) and someone stopped me to say "hey, it's USERNAME!". They didn't say much other than the hello before running off, and they never contacted me in any way afterwards. Even though they were probably just an awkward but well-meaning kid, it creeped me out enough to scale back a lot of my "public" interactions.

No. 58625

I had a similar situation as you a while back. Thing is a lot of those creepy men still followed me for years and never stopped. What's worse is the ones that are super inappropriate and if you ban them they retaliate by making more accounts. There needs to be some way that mutes them without them knowing.

In the meantime just post whatever you want. Don't pay attention to the comments or likes unless you're trying to make money out of this.

No. 59269

maybe a bit OT, but how do you ward off pervs commenting or DMing you? i'm only interested in female followers with similar interests (kawaii/fashion/selfie account) and was trying to think of effective ways to not be contacted by men. I was thinking putting in my description that I'm married or something lol

No. 59270

Works like a charm on some of them, give it a try, but there will always be guys who will think they can score or just be creepy

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No. 55579[Reply]

I'm hyped for summer, beaches, and swim suits. ITT share nice swim suits/Bikinis and share links of stores!

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No. 58815

Reminds me of the 80's. I like it.

No. 59023

Women aren't meant to have absolutely washboard flat stomachs, that's a meme. That is a normal and attractive stomach shape. The little curve around the bottom of the belly button is natural.

No. 59039

Holy shit get off these boards. You're letting them infect you.

No. 59044

You will look like an instahoe in that.

No. 59183


That looks like something you wear when you're about to be dancing on a pole, jfc

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No. 58349[Reply]

What medicine are you on farmers? Is it for mental health? physical health? How are you dealing with the side effects?

I just got put on bupropion, it's been really helpful for both my depression and body dysmorphia, but I've been getting horrid headaches.
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No. 58635

Effexor gave me a crazy tremor but it's the best thing to ever happen to me.

No. 58650

I'm on 30mgs of Mitrazapine daily, 20 mgs of Prazosin daily, 40mgs of Citalopram daily, 4mgs of Estridiol daily, 30mgs of Methylphenidate daily, and 200 mgs of Spirnolactone daily.

No. 58941

anyone has experience with nootropyl? it's a non-prescription supplement which is supposed to help with attention problems, but every source i saw recommends 3 pills a day and coupling them with fish oil to up their efficacy. honestly it seemed a bit too much to me.

No. 58974

bupropion for depression, but a pleasant side effect is that it cut down my appetite by a lot and I dropped a bunch of weight.

I'm also on naproxen for back pains that I've had for a few years now

No. 58988

When I was first diagnosed they started me on Lexapro. After highschool I tried going off medication but that really didn't work out, so I was put on desvenlafaxine for a couple of years. Recently I've been told to switch to sertraline and am currently in the process of doing so. I was prescribed metaprolol earlier last year for my heart.
It seemed like lexapro helped with anxiety and desvenlafaxine with depression. At this point I don't know what to expect from changing medication because I can never tell in the moment whether it is or isn't helping me. Honestly? I'd rather go off everything because I can't feel any difference, or more like I can't feel any differences that are helping me. Actually, it's like I can't feel anything? I can't shake this numbness and it's driving me insane. I feel like if I were sadder and less anxious I might be able to make progress. Not to mention all sexual function has gone to shit ever since I started des.

sage for blogpost just in case, but this should be alright to post, considering what this thread is.

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No. 48533[Reply]

Please feel free to vent or ask for advice in this thread pertaining to sexual abuse or harassment, etc

I'm looking for advice on how to build a healthy sexual relationship with my partner after my bad past. We've been married two years and he's fantastic. But my libido is very low and I have a feeling it might be tied to poor sexual relationships I'd had before. Starting at 8 years old and then on out. I'm not really bothered by the past but I think my mind is instantly associating sex with bad times, which shouldn't be the case since my husband is lovely. But my brain instantly is telling me that I dont want to do this or that its just a hassle. Often times when we begin fooling around I get stomach aches that will go away basically instantly when we stop, like he can tell I'm not in the mood so we wont continue. I never thought much of it, I always thought it was just something I ate. But today I figured out maybe it could be anxiety related.

I just want to be able to have a normal sex life with him where we can fool around and have fun, but I feel so bad for having something -wrong- with me. If anons have any advice i'd love to hear. I'm too poor for a therapist and I've scoured the internet for advice as well
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No. 58150

I guess yeah. It's a lot to come to terms with so much obvious uncomfortable interactions in such a short time.

I attempted to tell her to stop contacting me because I was uncomfortable with her forcing me into interactions(she calls/texts me every single day and usually asks me to come over to her house most weekends now) and she threw a fit, saying stuff like "if you hate me just tell me", and that my mother and I should move out of the house we share with other family members so she can move back in and not have to deal with us. My mother has also been hit on by her husband so I guess it makes sense to include her in being forced out of the house(and by extension, family)? I don't even know what she's doing anymore.

No. 58153


No, haven't really made any progress. Just reoccurring nightmares.


I kind of realize this now but.. I just don't know. I kinda just want to continue thinking this never happened to me

No. 58154


Why'd you do that to him? He was probably mad because it hurt.

No. 58464

I'm in the same boat as you, and it's very hard for me to be sexual with my husband unless I drink or get high first so I can be relaxed enough, otherwise even if I initiate the sex and I enjoy it there ALWAYS comes a point where I just start panicking and sobbing and just, have a huge panic attack. He's understanding and he knows what happened to me but it's still so embarrassing and I can't stand it.

Also, does anyone else here who is a CSA victim experience other mental health problems as an adult because of it? For example I know my disassociation began when my CSA began, and I feel like there are other people living in my head. One of them is the physical embodiment of what I was conditioned to be as a child. It was (at first) """otaku"" lolicon men who did it to me and wanted me to be a loli/little sister when I was 9-10. So I have a personality I feel like just appears in my body without warning that is that like, lolicon otaku girl and I start binding my chest and just. Phasing back into it even though I'm 21 now. Another thing is I feel like its impossible for me to grow up now. My room is so childish, I collect toys that remind me of when I was a child before I was molested/raped, disney princess/power puff girls stuff. Actually its specifically from when I was 5-6, before sexual abuse but I was being beaten and verbally abused at that age. Anyway, I'm extremely dependent and childish and I feel like I'm clinging to my childhood and trying to relive it and I feel like I can't stop. My husband doesn't mind this at all and enjoys taking care of me, but I know some of my family members think I need to stop liking childish things, idk I'm just rambling. I want to be a child forever, but a happy child who is not being beaten or raped.

No. 58469

it gets hard to explain because it gets confused with dissociative identity disorder a lot, which you do not seem to have, because for that you would have to need chronic amnesia about days months and years in your life to happen as a major factor.

what you describe is in some sense a milder version of it. like every healthy personality is consisting of many, many aspects of personality. like you can be a housewife and at the same time a sensitive woman, at the same time you have a job that takes different requirements on you, and so on. also every person has something called the "inner child", as in the person you were as a child.

people that experienced trauma in childhood usually have dissociated the aspects of personality which is what you describe. it's also called traumatized identity, of course it's worse when the trauma is occuring in childhood because the identity hasnt even developed fully.

People with a consistent personality are aware that they take different roles e.g. at work and at home. A person with dissociative identity disorder would switch between those states and then only remember being at home, not remembering the prior hours at all. A person with traumatized identity can be confused about who they really are, they can suffer from depersonalisation where they feel strange about how they handle situations and such, but they do always remember. Simply put together thats the difference.

I have that too. My father was very authoritarian and verbally, physically and emotionally abusive. When authority figures are strict with me or other people take up an authoritarian tone, I immediately and automatically switch to being very obedient. It's especially weird since beside that reaction Im rebellious and predominant and such.

you can read a little about traumatizide identity here:

If possible you can look for professional counselling in sense of psychotherapy.

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No. 52466[Reply]

Vagina general. Talk about your vaginas, ask questions, period and other reproductive system stuff is OK too. So is masturbation talk
I'll start
My clit is really fucking small. like the average clit is supposed to be pea sized and mine is maybe a quarter of that size and it makes masturbation frustrating and fruitless (yes even with toys)
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No. 58323


Coconut oil is actually good for your vagina. Look it up. It can help with keeping things healthy, and it's a natural lubricant. But I wouldn't use it with sex toys unless you know the oils won't ruin them.

No. 58361

I went off of mine with hopes that it would come back, but it's not really as good as I hoped. If I was an 8 on the scale of no sex drive, no orgasms, to max sex drive, many orgasms, I was a 1 when I was on effexor and I'm a 3 now that I've been off of it. It hasn't gotten much better now that I've been off of it for a few months, either. I'm scared that I'll be like this forever.

Going out to buy a ton of pumpkin seeds. Hope they work for me, too. And I've been thinking about getting a really strong vibrator (my old one isn't strong enough anymore), but I feel like that would be admitting defeat for good.

No. 60629

Does anyone use a menstrual cup with an IUD? Is it harder?

No. 60996

well i saw the dr and got an ultrasound, it's a fibroadenoma that has a large cyst either right below it or attached to it, or something, so they took a biopsy and now my tiddy sore and i'll hear back on wednesday.

No. 61215

I have a small, kind of hard to to the touch bump/lump right outside my vagina. It feels kind of like a cyst, but I'm not entirely sure what it is. It doesn't seem too serious because it doesn't hurt (but it feels a little uncomfortable when I press it). It gets more noticeable when I'm really horny. Does anyone have any ideas? If it seems bad I'll go to a gynecologist, but I didn't want to have to resort to that yet.

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No. 47125[Reply]

We've got plenty of underrated dudes on lolcow but are there any men that you're ashamed to say you'd fuck for any reason? Men who are ugly, unattractive, average-looking, creepy, weird or just plain shameful? It doesn't have to be a big reason that you're ashamed, just say why.

Admit your thirst, farmers.
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No. 57703

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Steven Ogg.
He's good at playing psychopathic disgusting pervert characters with anger issues. I've had hots for him since GTA V came out, he played Trevor in that one. I'd fuck him and all of the fictional characters he's potrayed tbh. That fucking BODY is insane. And those sexy grunts and growls… I'm not even that into rough stuff but I want him to destroy me

No. 57714

Are you me anon cause you just described my feelings for this man way too accurately.

No. 57717

fuck, so I'm not weird for thinking Eno was oddly beautiful? idc about the bald spot, I love androgynous and beautiful men

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>tfw born in the wrong generation xd

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No. 57204[Reply]

As a women I think too much of our self worth is placed on how attractive we are. I'm not bitter in any sense of the term but I do recognize how much easier things would be.

People would treat me with more kindness, I would be grabbing the attention better quality guys, and, I'm sure my social skills would be less of a problem.

its just interesting to think of how things could be different
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No. 57835

I wouldn't worry about it. Comparing yourself to Steve Buscemi is an unrealistic standard of beauty.

No. 57861

Honestly, apart from his eyes I don't really think that he's a bad looking person.

No. 57887

I photograph terribly. The only time I've taken a good photograph was when I was 20 pounds lighter. I'm on the way there again.

No. 57891

I always look like shit in pics I don't take myself, and sometimes even in those I do. I don't know if I really look like a turd irl or if it's just the camera

No. 57896

You're the only nasty one here.

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No. 56882[Reply]

This is probably a really stupid question but how do I be more like those girls on Instagram and social media who are just uniform beautiful? Perfect eyebrows and somehow perfect fashion sense, you could even count the whole basic bitch thing but I'm hoping someone knows what I mean. How do I be more like the majority of the girls I see on the street with perfect clothes and hair and bodies?

I'm 22 and feel pretty much like Tomoko Kuroki in comparision. I'm very short and curvy, but my height and baby face make me feel like I stand no chance and I have no clue where to go for makeup or fashion resources that these girls all learn from and perfect.

I really want to finally feel more like a pretty young woman, anyone got any resources or tips?
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No. 56907


Sorry, I realized after that it was best to post it here than OT and I wondered if a different image was appropriate, apologies!

No. 57001

makeup tutorials can definitely help with makeup and grooming- just be careful not to go overboard like most beauty gurus.

another thing to remember- pretty much everyone on social media with any sort of following uses editing apps. they don't look like that in real life. no shame in shopping your pics if you want to look that beautiful too (just own up to it of course.)

No. 57019

Aren't oil pulling and body wraps total bullshit? Other than that, good infographic

No. 57039

tomoko koroki isnt curvy…

No. 57093

One thing that makes people look beautiful on the internet is honestly being interesting. I'm not saying "ooh ur inside needs to be beautiful not ur outside" I'm saying, look how much lolcow tears into people who just stare vapidly at their cameras and shoop themselves into aliens. No one envies that.

Find hobbies, if you take a beautiful photo of yourself reading a book, watching the sunset, finishing a bike ride, painting a picture, you will look so much more beautiful than someone who rolls around on the floor trying to find the perfect angle and lighting.
lol i sound like a neckbeard but I'm actually just a woman who went through exactly the kind of painful envy you did. I feel a million times more attractive now that I can do makeup well, bathe regularly (I was gross), have good skin and have lost 20 pounds- but what really made me feel better about myself was finding shit about what I enjoyed and who I was.
I'm an artist and as soon as I put my all into painting, I felt better about myself. I took better care of myself because I had an identity to care about.
Obviously, art's not for everyone, but make sure you've got something you're passionate about OP, otherwise you're decorating an empty shell and that's not exactly motivating.

Also, diverging from that, make sure you have routines(diet/hygine/skincare/exercise). Consistency is the only thing that improves appearance.

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