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No. 195082[Reply]

>be me
>helped with femanon out with her career navigating some shit
>femanon hangs out with me irl once
>femanon calls it a date
>femanon shows me her waist, she pulled her shirt off her pants and showed me how loose fitting her pants were
>femanon kiss me after our 'date'
>fast foward
>femanon says good night with xx, always
>femanon said she wants to marry me
>femanon tells me about other guys she is seeing but always insist they aren't me
>femanon called me bae, but i never reicprocated
>femanon once said she loved me on snap "i love you"

wtf is going on, does she like me, what do i do? she is also very busy with work, and is living in europe without data and can only use public wifi. She is an emerging artist. She is also autistic-like with adhd and is beta and is awkward and shy.

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No. 195148

She likes you.

No. 195156

Don't think much about it. Consider if you're getting what you want from the relationship, and adjust it if so. No point in thinking am I X or am I Y. Treat each issue individually.

No. 195164

She's actually a reptillian. She's testing you, and if you pass (stay by her side) she'll let you into her tribe and you'll bear her lizard babies

No. 195234

she seems annoying even just based on the screencap you provided. you send her a job lead and she says she "can't" cold call jobs? no bitch, you WON'T cold call jobs. bc you're lazy and entitled

No. 195243

Directly ask her what she wants from you, if she doesn't know then move on and start treating you platonic. She sounds kinda crazy though tbh.

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No. 15930[Reply]

How do you feel about Omocat's designs and artwork? I like a lot of the stuff available in their store and have the glow in the dark sweater personally, other people think it's too weeb.
Reminder that they started a Kickstarter for a game they were making with free software. It raised $203,000 from 5,910 backers. Said game was meant to be released in May, but there's been no word on it. Not even an update. No backer rewards, either.
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No. 194676

Yeah the Fall 2016 ones are super nice and makes me wish she did sell them at conventions…I went to a con and she had 80 percent 8 bit designs and they were ugly im my opinion. Those kind of designs are the ones you find on Snapfish or some shit.Looks like she pulled them off the site..

No. 195237

There's an update on her kick starter page (finally) posted a couple days ago and basically it was saying that making a game is hard, time consuming and all that jazz. She list all the games features (and even forgot about one) and ended the post saying that they'er going to release a playable demo of the game in October……at a pop-up shop in L.A….yeah, I found that really weird…

No. 195238

Also the pop-up shop's only going to be open for two days…

No. 195239

She also said she would resale the demo after then event to the backers,and then release it publicly for anyone to check out

No. 195240

Sorry, dumb auto-correct!

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No. 187938[Reply]

Previous thread hit post limit

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No. 195242

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I'm not asexual or repulsed by sexual things/the thought of sex, and porn/masturbation/talking about sex is fine with me. Part of my job can be sexual (but the job itself isn't sexual in the slightest, it's confusing) and so I don't find myself being uncomfortable with that. But I am just so hung up on the idea of having sex with someone that it's giving me irrational anxiety about it now being a situation I could easily opt into.

My friend sexually abused me at 14 - I don't know if abuse is right, but I was depressed and relied on that one person to keep me from killing myself and was told 'we're two girls, we have to try it eventually' and 'just pretend I'm someone else' and 'it'll make you feel better'. I think that contributes to my insecurities. I also don't think anyone should be able to see me…enjoying myself? Like during an orgasm? I think that because of that situation with my friend, I've seen actual sexual intercourse as a taboo thing so I think that people consider me 'not allowed' to enjoy it or something.

It's a weird situation and I'm aware that it's probably not coherently written either. I just have the opportunity for a few hookups with someone I like a lot and who likes me too, and I would obviously jump at the chance but I'm so confused about it all that it's making my head hurt to think about it. I know I like girls and guys and lean more towards girls - lesbian songs or music videos or Youtube videos or movies/TV shows make me feel like 'yes, that's me! That's what I wanna be like!' but I feel like it'll never happen because of the way I think about sex. Which is stupid. I feel somehow impure or dirty and don't want someone to see me in such a vulnerable position.

Pic completely unrelated, obviously.

No. 195258

Tfw your girlfriend is 1000% better looking then you.
Going out in public is the worst because you feel like she shouldn't be seen with you.

I'm having terrible emotional feelings about my girlfriends choice from looking masculine to feminine.

No. 195372

Some time ago I had a conversation with a friend about how I never tell anything about myself or my thoughts or feelings to anyone and it's been kind of haunting me. I guess it's true and I don't really know why I'm not more open about myself. Maybe it's because I don't want to be mocked for my interests or thoughts or because I just feel like it's not necessary for anyone to know shit since we're not really close friends and it's easier to keep it that way so I can just move on and do whatever I feel like next.
Thinking about it just makes me feel dead inside, like I don't really have a personality or any interests at all. I mean, I know that can't be true, I have hobbies and likes and dislikes but when I'm with people, I just become this empty shell of a human who just pretty much fits into whatever is needed at the moment.

How can I stop being such an out of reach bitch and maybe actually make closer friends that I don't eventually just fall out of touch with because I don't care enough?

No. 195376

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I have really bad depression, not for one particular reason but lots of tiny things that become exaggerated into a big fog that just hangs over everything I do. I had counseling for a bit but I felt like I couldn't tell the counselor anything because of course even tho there is confidentiality I get paranoid that telling her lots the things that play a major role in my feelings (some of which involve drugs, alcohol etc) will end up being pursued further, so I stopped going bc it was kind of pointless. The only person I have to talk to right now is also my only friend (Seriously, I have no other people I have actual conversation with on a regular basis) and she's been really sweet listening to me and being 100% honest when giving me advice. I'm really glad to have her but also really scared that I'm going to lose her as friend bc the few times we've hung out it just ended in me crying. I feel like a massive idoit and like I'm just burdening her, especially after reading some of the replies in >>195281 thread. No one wants to hang out with someone who just cries and ruins everything all the time but she's all I have it's so pathetic. ofc I listen to her when she has stuff to talk about too. She keeps telling me its ok and that she wants to help but I really feel like it won't be.

No. 195534

I got invited to be a bridesmaid for a wedding, and while I've been happy to oblidge for the sake of my friends, it's not everything I thought it would be.
I had to pay 300 dollars for a dress I look objectively terrible in.
Recently the MoH asked me to be the one to find and book a venue for the bridal shower which, imo, is her delegating her responsibility.
I have no damn clue what to book, I've never done anything wedding related before so I don't know what to look for or what to do. I feel like telling her I can't, despite her trying to butter me up about how I'd be 'good' at this.

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No. 190059[Reply]

everyone has that song that is their song, whether it like describes them or they feel a deep connection with it, constantly insist on playing it at parties or listen to it on public transport to evoke special feelings, you know what i mean. I love asking people this question, I feel like it says a lot about them.

what are yours anons?

I'll post mine:
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No. 194835

specifically mystikal's verse. i have no idea why, but it just is.

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No. 194923

I wish it was a exaggeration that most of Aphex Twin are "my songs"

No. 195134

omg malice mizer. i love them since forever. the best visual kei band ever.

No. 195160

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No. 193125[Reply]

Have you ever kicked a guy in the balls ? Why and what happened ?
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No. 194906

wew anon you sound harsh on yourself. I kicked guyfriends in balls, scratched them and hit in general a lot as a kid. I wasn't very fond of doing it but that was the thing. They would tease girls and girls would chase them and hit them. I guess it's some sort of puberty thing, tension between girls and boys and shit. But yeah that was notorious.
I have never kicked anyone "seriously" tho, on full force. But I'm always ready

No. 194910

I did once accidentally, we were playing soccer, I felt remorseful

No. 194993

one time i was sitting with a then current boyfriend on a couch and i thought itd be hilarious to straddle him and tickle him
but as i was getting into position i knee'd him like directly in the balls pretty hard
dude turned out to be a douche though
im not super regretful

No. 194995

My dad :( Story goes:

When I was a kid, one day my folks, as usual, took me along to a party. As they were all sipping their drinks, chatting, and having fun, one of the family friends (a guy) who took up looking after me, taught me I oughta kick a guy in the balls, and showed me how to do it, if said guy would ever… unnerve me, as I remember. Keep in mind I was under 10 y.o. He wanted to protect me from something else, of course, but this is what I took from it.

Sometime later, my dad was playing dodgeball with me, helping me get better at it because I complained being shit at it at school. I had a great aim, but couldn't dodge. I was still being shit at dodging and got frustrated, so when he got me, I aimed at his crotch, and threw the ball with all my power. He squealed and rolled on the floor.

I was flabbergasted and scared by his reaction. He did his best to assure me everything's ok and I shouldn't be worried.

No. 195022

Was all i did in high school. Any boy that was a cunt to me or try to wind me up, id kick him in to balls or grab and twist them. I gave no fucks haha

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No. 67967[Reply]

Can we have a general language thread? I've searched /g/'s and /b/'s catalogs and all the language threads are for Japanese specifically, so I wanted to make one for all languages. There seem to be a pretty varied amount of languages here, to be sure.

What other languages do you speak? Are any of you learning a new language, or interested in helping someone with a language? Maybe make some language exchange buddies?
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No. 184805

Haaaa I'm also in the Czech Republic, but I'm a foreigner. I'm trying to learn Czech but it's very difficult for me. I think it's a beautiful and complex language, and I'd love to actually hold a legit conversation with people here someday.

I'm a native English speaker and I speak French at about a B1 level. I used to be closer to C1, but it's been awhile since I've used it properly (as in, in a non-tourist setting) so I'm really rusty.

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No. 184950

I've alway wanted to learn Navajo, but my Chei is embarrassed of his accent

No. 185290

would anyone like to start learning spanish with me? i'm a little familiar with the language but am still very much a noob. i think it'd be neat to have a partner to learn with. we can find some material and go over it with each other and possibly watch some soaps together (if i can figure that out).

No. 195017

Does anyone know where you can download Pimsleur Spanish past lesson 16 for free? I have a 40 minute drive every day and I'm done trying to listen to podcasts on YouTube. Your can't learn that much from a lot of them. Pimsleur cds are out of my price range since I just listen to them once.

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No. 194057[Reply]

Britfags who are you going to vote for and why? Be honest
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No. 194842

Apparently the DUP are triggering homosexuals, which is fine by me.

No. 194844

I REALLY hate pakis and blacks. That's why I voted UKIP.

Make the UK white again.

No. 194849

Sage for retarded question, but do you anons prefer the term Brit or English to refer to you? Am foreign, and have always wondered. Are they just interchangeable and you don't really care? Do Scots care about being referred to as English?

No. 194853

Person from Great Britain
Person from England

I'm Welsh, so I'm a Brit, but I'm not English. I wouldn't get upset if someone referred to me as English, but I wouldn't like it very much either.

No. 194897


I refer to myself as English, but you can say Brit if you like. Saying English has more ethnic connotations tho, non-whites usually call themselves 'British' for example.

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No. 194735[Reply]

How does one deal with one day being very beautiful and then because of age they end up looking completely different?it must fuck people up mentally to experience being attractive then have it snatched away just as quickly as they had it. The aging process must be a lot harder for people who were always very good looking in their youth.
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No. 194839

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Eh, my family ages gracefully. My grandma is 80 and bikes 20km twice a week. She's never had any work done and looks around ~64. She was beautiful in her youth (dressed very Audrey Hepburn and looked like her. Pic related, back when I practised morphing on PS, I overlaid their pictures and shopped Audrey into her. Obviously complexion was different, but my mum said it's a very accurate portrayal of her mum as young)

Overall, I lucked out. My mum just transformed into a MILF at the age of 49.
Unfortunately my dads side is there to fuck my shit up, they all bald. MALE AND FEMALE, so I just gotta go for that Amber Rose look then.

No. 194840

Eh, getting older is part of life and trying to delay it with surgery seems foolish to me. I take reasonably good care of myself and hope that's enough.
I naturally have chubby cheeks at a low weight, so hopefully that will prevent me from getting those corpsey sunken in faces some elderly women have. Unfortunately my dads side doesn't age very gracefully and the older women all have potato farmer faces, but my moms family ages really nicely and my mom doesn't have any wrinkles at 50.

No. 194841

Or you can start saving for a wig fund and get one of the great ones (cancer patient good, not cheap party ones) when things go to shit.

No. 194843

I'd then want to rock Lil Kim hats and shit. You know, red, yellow and green wigs. Too expensive to get great quality ones though and very socially unaccepted.

No. 194869

Duplicate thread. Please continue discussion in the other one.


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No. 194733[Reply]

How does one deal with one day being very beautiful and then because of age they end up looking completely different?it must fuck people up mentally to experience being attractive then have it snatched away just as quickly as they had it. The aging process must be a lot harder for people who were always very good looking in their youth.

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No. 194523[Reply]

Have you ever beat a guy at a sport (soccer, wrestling, boxing, tennis, etc) ?

How did it feel ? How did the guy/other guys react ?

No. 194668


oh i love beating men at sports, thats my favorite hobby. thats so stupid and petty but it makes me feel a lot better about myself haha

ive beat guys in kick boxing and it legit almost gets me wet. im shit at organized sports but i was close to trying it just for the reason to beat more men. its a big fuel

i actually totally fucked a guys girlfriend after i beat the shit out of him and she told me hes never made her cum before i did. its a good feeling. very good.

sorry for the extra and sexual info, im a passionate lesbian

No. 194678

This might be the wrong place to ask, but what recreational sports team are generally the nicest to total beginners? Like, I want to stay active and meet new people, but I don't want them hating me for bringing them down. I'm pretty tall, so I was thinking maybe basketball or volleyball? What do farmers think?
sage for off-topic

No. 194729

try non-contact sports, like volleyball - if you aren't good you'll annoy your members way less than you would in a game like basketball or football. clueless people often cause collisions and such in contact sports
tennis is also very good for socializing and your height will be a huge advantage

back on topic - I beat guys many times at sports, mostly volleyball. everyone thought I was cool and started to see me in a better light, maybe because I was generally short and skinny so it came as a surprise that I can do so well

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